Should Pain

065 Often feel a little (or a lot) irritated, annoyed, disdainful or indignant, frustrated, exasperated, resentful or disappointed with your partner? Or just generally hardened against this person you ultimately really want to feel soft and open to?This is likely what I call “Should Pain.” Although very normal to the human brain, “should pain” is one of biggest barriers to love in our marriages. It feels bad to both you and your partner when either of you are struggling...