Why Your Kids Don’t Want to Spend Time With You (And How To Fix That)

In this deeply personal episode of Lights On, a father sits down with his wife Laura and daughter to reveal the unconventional family culture that has their kids choosing couch time over parties. They dive into the "corny" traditions that actually work, why confrontation leads to clarity, and how making awkward topics conversational changed everything. From discussing porn at the dinner table to the "no snitch" rule they completely reject, this family shares raw insights on raising emotionally intelligent kids who actually want to be home. Whether you're struggling to connect with your teenagers or wondering why family dinners matter, this conversation offers practical wisdom mixed with laugh-out-loud moments and surprising tears. Warning: This episode might challenge everything you think you know about "appropriate" family conversations. 00:00 - Family Culture & Why Our Kids Choose Us Over Parties (Intro) 00:53 - Summer Jobs, Stripper Poles & Love Island Drama 04:30 - The Father's Day Dinner That Changed Everything 11:10 - Why "Corny" Family Traditions Actually Work 20:47 - How Close Families Can Be Annoying (The Warning) 21:47 - God Behind Bars Partnership 22:23 - Confrontation Creates Clarity: Our Family Rules 31:02 - The Power of Family Dinners (Harvard Study) 40:30 - Breaking the "No Snitch" Culture 44:41 - Plana.org: Help for the Unexpected 45:23 - Why We Talk About P*rn at the Dinner Table Follow Carl at: https://www.instagram.com/carllentz/ Follow Laura at: https://www.instagram.com/lauralentz/ Supported by God Behind Bars https://godbehindbars.com Supported by Plana https://plana.org/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.