Ask Sharon: Why Desire Fades

Have you ever wondered why the spark seems to fade over time? Desire doesn’t disappear because something’s wrong. It fades because everything is the same. I explain the science behind why familiarity suppresses desire and how we mistakenly attribute pleasure to the person (like a number three) rather than the physiological reaction in our own body. I also share what we can do to bring desire back in a long-term relationship… without waiting on our partner to figure it out. Desire isn’t magic....