Kimi Inch: Don’t Be an Impressive Dom

You don’t need to impress to dominate. You need to attune, surrender, and show up human. In this raw, funny, and soulful conversation, kink educator Kimi Inch joins Eamon and Madeline in bed (literally) to unravel the heart of ethical domination.Together, they explore the evolution from performative Dom to embodied erotic leader, how to work with fantasy as soul medicine, and why surrender is a skill for Doms too. Kimi shares her framework of “power with, not power over,” how to avoid harm in professional kink work, and why even the most badass Doms need aftercare. Along the way, you’ll hear real talk about attunement, humiliation, theater kid kink, and the healing power of endings done right.Kimi Inch is a Pro Domme, a trauma-informed somatic therapist,, an author, a  kink educator, and a motivational spanker with over 20 years of experience. Known for her playful rigor and soul-deep approach, she helps clients and erotic leaders explore power, surrender, and transformation through conscious kink, fantasy work, and embodied presence.Timestamps(06:00) – Humor, safety, and perverting everything(12:00) – Letting go of scripts to access deeper play(18:00) – Baby Doms, ego traps, and why presence > performance(21:00) – Attunement, consent, and power with (not over)(28:00) – Erotic leadership: co-creation vs. control(30:00) – Fantasy as sacred message, not compulsive script(36:00) – The ethics of FinDom and capitalist kink culture(42:00) – Why great Doms learn to sub(45:00) – Dom drop, aftercare, and the sacredness of endingsLinksKimi Inch (@kimiinch) · Instagram photos and videos&More - Your Pleasure Is Our Passion